Husband Said I’m Not Attractive After Weight Gain
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Her accent tells me everything i need to know about that man 😒
this woman should divorce her husband ASAP. He never truly loved her.
there is so much toxic masculinity in these comments dude…
Then lose weight. Problem solved
HE IS A NORMAL PIG MAN.
That was my son
Leave him. I left my ex. He wanted me skinny, hairless, and more of the Aryan American look. Should've picked someone NOT Eastern European 🤡🤡🤡 Waste of my time. He's wasting yours. Right now you could get a new man just as you are. I'm not saying act immorally in any way. I'm saying God made you perfect just the way you are, whether you gained weight or not. Someone is out there for you who won't get stuck on looks.
He already said it, he is not attracted to you! What are you expecting? Him still being affectionate towards you while you are still fat? I don't get it.
You don’t have to say ur not attracted to them. Have some game bruh😂 could said “I love you and I want to see you as pretty as I know you are, I want US to go workout together and have US eat better. Because I value US a lot”
What is he supposed to do just be miserable and lie to her? Its not right to get out of shape when you get married this applies to both parties.
Girlie, he doesn't love you 😭😭😭
Yea that does not sound like love at all…
Girl. Gurl. G u r l. Nah ah.
So many fat butthurt karens in the comments
She said he loves her, but he doesn't find her attractive. Why are people here saying he doesn't love her? Attraction is not some byproduct of love. If he has always been a person who has been turned off my massive amounts of fat, then that's that. She doesn't say she got fat because she was pregnant or ill, like people love to assume. Maybe she just ate her way to it and never exercised. How can her partner respect that?
Divorceeeeeeeeeed
So his love and affection are conditional?
I will be here the next 2 weeksinstead of flying home to Minnesota with my son and nephew to go hunting so my freezer should be full of grouse and pheasant for the year
I am attracted t op you so there
Anybody tell her this isn't a pissing contest
That's 1 chicken who has her priorities really edged up
I. .Aley ow meoney that contributes t PO the whole family
Wwtf about money
Ran into James Hatfield and duff mncracken and slash s oh happy night
My niece is having her first baby in november
Wonder what hubbys body looks like
I told my husband: you have to divorce me if I am getting fat,if you really love me. He said I was crazy 😂 so I never was More than 120
wen you love a women dosnt mather its 50 kg or its 100 kg you help her to get his point or you better leave your not a husband!i know my wife past to 2 pregnancy and i stell want her as i never will! so yeah its about comunications and not judge!
RUN….,
Another woman with no self esteem or boundaries. So exhausted hearing women put up with BS from men who are never worth it
Tell him you’re not attracted to him because he has the arrogance and audacity to shame you and to not be attracted to the woman who birthed his children. Arrogance and apathy are at least to me the biggest turnoffs. How dare he tell you that. You might have gained some weight while you were busy literally creating a human life, but his heart is ugly. You win! 🏆
Young lady, tell your husband to go f-himself. It’s not your weight – it’s his insecurities. If he doesn’t have a 6pack stomach & 2 cannons for arms.. he needs to sit down & check himself
You are shallow, you shouldn't be more attracted to her because she became more curvy.
If yall expect him to be consistent, you better be consistent too. Yall spent all that time staying in shape to look attractive and then let yourselves go when you get him but if he so much as changes his hair up its a big ass deal.